"The Rational Male" 男性覺醒 by Rollo Tomassi @ Social Awakening-社交覺醒

可能有人誤會我文章的意思

我並不是在diss Red Pill阿你各位

就如同我也在這篇文章指出了PUA的問題，怎麼就沒有人氣PUPU

阿PUA就活該被罵嗎(笑)

其實我對這些資訊都是抱持著開放的態度，也都很有興趣

並且用中立的態度去分析

請別誤解我的意思

今天來分享Rollo Tomassi的"The Rational Male"(男性覺醒)一書的心得

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老實說，看得很爽

上一次這麼爽是在看David X的書的時候了

好人體質的人看這類書應該都會有一種易筋換骨的感覺，暢快淋漓

以下分享幾段書中讀了很有感覺的文字跟裡面提到的九個鐵則:

There is no ONE. There are some good Ones and there are some bad Ones, but there is no ONE.

沒有所謂的真命天女，世界上有好女人、也有不好的女人，但沒有真命天女

真命天女是一種病態的著迷，完全把某一個女人理想化的結果，這樣的"神化"女人會對你傷害非常大

In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least.

愈不需要對方，在關係裡就擁有愈大的權力

You are not Alpha because of your achievements, you have your achievements because you are Alpha.

你並非因為你的外在成就才成為Alpha男,而是因為你是Alpha男才擁有這些成就

Alpha的成果是來自於Alpha的心態

(這邊的Alpha不單指把妹，而是一種成功者、高價值者的生活心態)

Opportunity and options make a man the prize. Women would rather share a high value Man than be saddled with a faithful loser.

當一個男人擁有選擇權，才會被視為有價值的男人

女人寧願共享高價值男人，也不願意接受一個專情的魯蛇

(幹講得太好了)

Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you're not fucking her, you're her girlfriend.

女人有BF跟GF，

如果你沒有上她，那你就只是她的GF

The Man you wish to become requires you to take action. The goal posts for your own satisfaction will always keep moving away from you, and that’s a good thing. This is what inspires us to grow and mature and develop a capacity to overcome challenges. However, all this requires action on your part.

要成為你想要成為的樣子你必須要行動

成果它不會從天上掉下來，它必須透過你不斷地克服挑戰

這些都需要你的行動

(行動行動行動，老師有沒有說!)

Women should only ever be a complement to a man's life, never the focus of it.

你應該把女人視為人生的調味料，而非人生的重心

Women want to ‘want’ their men.

女人想要感受到的是對男人的"欲望"

(而很多男人提供的是真心，Nononono....)

Peak years for women’s SMV tops out around 23 years. By are 36, the average man has reached his own relative SMV apex.

女人最有市場價值是在23歲的時候，而男人愈老愈有價值，男人到了36歲在兩性市場上的價值才會達到頂峰

所以，你只需要好整以暇

該著急的是女人

如果你能夠意識到自己未來的潛力，女人同樣也會感受到

(因為如果她們依靠的是自己的外貌，其價值會衰退的很快)

When a woman wants to fuck you she'll find a way to fuck you. If she's fluctuating between being into you and then not, put her away for a while and spin other plates.

(看到這句我笑翻)

當一個女人真的想上了你她會翻山越嶺不辭辛勞去上你

如果她對你的態度反反覆覆忽冷忽熱，那麼你就應該要把她放在一邊

去接觸別的女人(多線進行)

Women want men to "just get it"

女人希望男人懂game，懂女人

(這太重要了)

Accept hypergamy as a women's operative state at all times.

接受女人的慕強擇偶，這是她們的天性

你要想辦法讓自己變得更強、更高價值、更有選擇權

你要瞭解控制權、學習game、了解女人與兩性社交動態

而不是在那邊靠北

(對就是在說你)

The real test for a man is how he lives with himself, alone.

對男人來說，真正的挑戰，是他如何跟自己相處

當你真正自我接納，對自己感到自信與自在的時候，才會讓女人感受到真正的吸引力

男性覺醒九鐵則:

1. Frame is everything. Always be aware of the subconscious balance of who's frame in which you are operating. Always control the Frame, but resist giving the impression that you are.

框架非常重要

永遠要意識到到底現在是"誰在聽誰的"

控制框架，但請注意不要讓對方感受到你在控制

2. Never, under pain of death, honestly or dishonestly reveal the number of women you’ve slept with or explain any detail of your sexual experiences with them to a current lover.

保持神秘

寧願死也不要告訴她你睡過多少女人

3. Any woman who makes you wait for sex, or by her actions implies she is making you wait for sex; the sex is NEVER worth the wait.

如果她找藉口、找理由不睡你，或是開條件讓你等，不要浪費你的時間在她身上

4. Never under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.

如果不是快要結婚了，別同居

(大家可以想一想為什麼)

5. Never allow a woman to be in control of the birth.

你如果讓她懷孕，那你玩完了

記得戴套

6. Women are fundamentally incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved by a woman.

女人很現實，她永遠不會像你想像的一樣愛你

"浪漫的愛情"只存在與男人的腦子

7. It is always time and effort better spend developing relations with new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship.

別再花心思在"讓前女友回來"了，也別買什麼時光機了，你又不是小叮噹

8. Always let a women figure out why she won't fuck you, never do it for her.

9. Never seriously self-deprecate with a woman you intend to be intimate with.

很多沒自信的男人，在面對心儀的女人的時候，會有一些自我貶抑的想法

"她太美了"

"我不知道該怎麼跟她互動"

"我配不上"

就算是真的，等她發現就好

她也許不會發現、也許不會這麼想

為什麼要替她想"拒絕你"的理由未戰先敗?

結論:

這是一本有趣的書